Husband (31M) just basically told me (30F) he can get away with things because he’s “bigger than me”

That's ridiculous. You're talking about women like they were children.

It's not okay to intimidate, threaten, or scare the person you're dating no matter what gender they are. That doesnt mean you cant get angry or let them know if theyve crossed a line. People can be terrible, even to people they're in a relationship with. Women are people too and they're just as capable of being terrible. If your partner crosses a line it's completely normal to get angry and prioritize expressing yourself and establishing a boundary over "making sure the woman has a loving supportive environment"

Just because some women are less physically strong than men on average doesnt mean all women arent strong enough to handle a heated argument.

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