I busted my ex (48) when he went to visit AP (26) that he met online. 11 year relationship down the drain. Told me he was headed home to see his mom for Mother’s Day. Of course, I had my suspicions and called dear mom up to see how she was celebrating the day. Of course my ex wasn’t there. A close friend shared he flew to Chicago to meet online connection. He disappeared for 5 days until he came back to the east coast. He packed suit case. Quit his job and moved 1000 miles away. Never spoke to me again. Deleted every trace of me and started spamming his new relationship online and accusing me of abuses to anyone who would listen.

These people are immature COWARDS. Selfish selfish cowards. You do not need that in your life.

Pick yourself up. Get a whole new life. New home. New job. New friends. Become a tiger. Do no show weakness.

After a couple years. I could careless about my train wreck ex. But I’m a bank vp in Manhattan and I have great friends, family and a new home and life. I’m proud of myself as are many others.

Learn to love yourself and start a new journey ASAP.