The fact that he’s willing to stoop low enough to ask you to “at least” have her as a girlfriend that he’s intimate with, should tell you everything you need to know. The chances of him actually cheating on you and hiding it from you is through the roof.

He’s not a real man or a husband. He’s a selfish, greedy, and lustful person who is willing to hurt and manipulate his wife in order to get what he wants.

I’m not one to encourage divorce— I try to avoid it at all costs— but in this case I would leave asap. The trust and respect is already gone and his true colors have been revealed.

“At least as a girlfriend” that he’s intimate with. What a low life. How the hell does he not feel ashamed saying that to his WIFE.

Also, the fact that he says that proves he probably doesn’t love her— he just lusts for her. Being physical with her is more important to him than having an actual marriage with her lmao.