Husband refuses to stop talking to coworker says he wants a trial separation... Am I doing the right thing?

Update: in two weeks, I'm going to talk to him one more time and see what the terms of our reconciliation is from his point of view. A trial separation where he has one foot out the door is completely unacceptable but if he makes that choice then he's choosing to end our marriage from my perspective. If that is the case, as much as I love him, as much as I want our marriage to work, as much as I want him to choose me -- I just need to accept that he no longer values our marriage. I'm going to tell him that I'm moving out of state but that I won't keep the kids from him permanently -- just until I calm down.

I've already contacted a moving company for a date to have guys come and help pack up the house. That is the date I will have the talk with him. If he continues with this trial separation bullshit then I have my answer. The kids and I will be gone. I will have money set aside for me. I will take the truck. (I surprised him with that truck as a gift. He had a shitty car and this was a birthday gift I gave him. He can purchase his own damn car.)

Hopefully, with some therapy, I can calm down and get some perspective while I am away. I just can't be this close to the situation and think clearly. I hurt too much. Thinking about what he's doing makes me too angry. I need space.

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