He watched porn at work. Which isn’t a huge deal. He had to take care of a boner but when I saw incognito open on his phone (was using the internet on his phone to login to our medical acct to pay a bill) I asked why had he had it open and he got all weird and said he was looking up birthday presents for me.

I could tell he was lying but he insisted over and over that that’s all he was doing until finally he admitted he was watching porn but was still also looking up bday gifts and just figured he had incognito open so why not?

I was upset that he lied so I went for a drive. I came back ready to forgive him and move on so we started talking again and I asked again if the bday thing was true. He acted weird again so i kept pushing and he admitted that no he wasn’t looking at gifts on his phone but his computer so he lied about the incognito mode being open already.

And then I kind of questioned the computer thing because he was still acting weird and he admitted again that he didn’t looks up gifts at all and that he went on the porn site and only that.

He lied about a birthday gift and acted like I was an asshole for “making him tell me” and said he is trying to turn over a new leaf by buying gifts early (my birthday is in July). Then after he admitted to the lies basically said that all wasn’t true.

And on top of that he claims that we talked when I got back because he was “looking to get caught” and wanted me to pull the lie out of him...Like what the fuck!? I shouldn’t have to pull lies out. And that’s also a lie because I was the one who brought up the incident again when I got home. He tried to move on to asking me how my day was.

Now, he’s acting like I’m the one in the wrong because I was angry and said he didn’t deserve me. And I “wont let it go” and how he’s “never going to live it down” well dude, why did you lie to me!? And it’s still fresh. It just happened last night. Of course I’m angry.

He claims he lied because he panicked and didn’t know how I’d react to the porn thing and felt like a “wild animal backed into a corner”. I’m so annoyed. And then of course him doing this just puts a light on all the other ways he isn’t treating me great and it just fuels my anger worse.