Husband Thinks I’m Kinkshaming But In Genuinely Concerned

I’m sorry but this seriously creeps me out. Sexuality is vastly deeper than social mores and as a man I’ve definitely seen and accepted the part of myself that can find young teenage girls attractive, this is part of our collective history, is rooted in fertility, and was normal for most of our species time on earth, being attracted to a woman mimicking a toddler isn’t and that honestly makes me feel sick. My partner time played the ‘young virginal maiden’ and honestly it felt incredibly healing to have a part of my male psyche that felt so much shame seen, acknowledged, and accepted but that is a different world from role playing as a pre puberty toddler.

Regarding fear of having a teenage daughter. Men can be attracted to many women in a bar and hopefully never rape or go against anyone’s will, we’re capable of violence but hopefully not violent, these are instincts that time won’t breed out, it’s the same with a teenage girl. Any man attracted to a fertile female is normal, but that doesn’t excuse any acting on it and for most men negotiating primal instinct and modern life isn’t an issue.

/r/sex Thread Parent