Men view sex very differently to women in general. At the risk of sounding crude, it’s the man that does the f%#€$%$ and penetrating, laying the woman down. Intercourse dynamics has dominance in it.

A guy that can attract and lay with many women tends to gain admiration from a lot of other guys..in the same way that a woman will get admiration if she’s secured a husband that’s resourceful, tall and strong. She’ll feel good getting attention from other women in that regard.

And also guys are not judged universally for their purity, men are judged usually for their productivity, height and strength.

And guys generally judge women on their purity and modesty.

That’s why the shame isn’t there as much as it is for women when it comes to sex.

Look at it this way, if a man hit another man, we wouldn’t care much. But we’d be outraged (rightly so) if a man struck a woman, even if she struck him first.

We get judged differently because we are different

Men care about a woman’s past, women tend to care more about his future.