If you really got raped, and actually care. You´d go to the authorities, not on Reddit AGB. I´m sorry but I lose a lot of compassion for people who claim rape, something that is extremely serious, and go online to tell people about how they got raped. Also you asking whether or not you got raped makes me believe that you don´t really know and so therefore don´t care all that much.

When we meet I suck him off for a bit and then he puts on the condom and begins to fuck me really hard with no lube or foreplay whatsoever. I keep telling him to stop and pull out as it was hurting so much and I don't bottom that often, he ignores me and instead flattens me out into a painful position and keeps going. He only stops a few minutes later once he has climaxed.

I do not know if you got raped or not. People here thinking it´s as easy as "If you say no, it´s rape" are being extremely retarded. Rape and sexual assault is a lot more complex then that.

I know I´ll probably be downvoted for not saying "It´s rape, we´re here for you" but i´m sorry, I don´t think you got raped. And I also wouldn´t ruin the man´s life by calling the police if you don´t seem to really have been traumatised.

Also I´m saying this as a rape victim so don´t fucking go and tell me I have no idea what i´m talking about. Rape is a serious serious matter, I lose respect for people who would rather go to facebook, twitter or reddit than go to the police. It seriously removes all the power there is in the word "rape" much like how now the word "racism" has lost so much power.