There’s a lot of ‘just’ statements in this thread. ‘Just make new friends’. ‘Just stop thinking about it’. Likely from people who haven’t experienced exactly what you are but want to advise you on the situation. What you’re experiencing is one of the most confusing and frustrating things. If you’re already feeling rejected by people you thought you meant more to then asking them to do stuff to only be rejected by them again is overkill. I’m sorry that I don’t have a solution for you because I’m experiencing the exact same thing. I bit the bullet one of the days during the week and asked them in the group if they wanted to make plans for Friday and most agreed so I set them in motion. Comes Friday and see pictures go up on Instagram of them all miles away in some pub and not a call or text out of them all day. I understand people saying oh well we should be more active and asking what the story is but these people in this group only recently started an entirely new group and excluded the one person I actually genuinely get along with but added me into this new group so I know they’re nasty people. They even called it ‘The No X Group’. These people are around 30 years of age. Sad and miserable bastards