IamA girl from GirlsDoPorn.com AMA!

It's hard for me to trust this as it sounds, to a T, the narrative an anti-porn Christian aggregate would put out there. But I'm 22 and well-traveled and have encountered too many women who have had to use their body just to get by and I find it absolutely heartbreaking.

I had a lab partner who went through her teenage years as a more or less homeless traveler all over the country, and the abuse stories along these lines that she told me rendered an empirical and objective view of male heterosexuality that gave me a special wrath for people who harbor a "boys will be boys" attitude. I may sound like a raging feminist,

Weirdly, I only talk about the porn industry with men. There's too many ethical dilemmas. My current boyfriend watches much more porn than my boyfriends in the past, which I have no issue with (he's yet to connect it to his anxiety and death grip syndrome though), I just have an issue with the industry. I definitely notice a solid correlation between driven dudes who pursue their interests and dudes who don't make jacking off a priority, but hey, I'm on reddit.

The most honest conversations I've had are with my Dad, and I have no problem with men beating off or watching porn, I'm just not able to avoid thinking about how disgusting the porn industry is on an ethical and human level. And I have too much empathy for the girls because of my experience as a young thin white girl with a nice face and nice ass. You get called a tease when you're 17, so you sleep with your boyfriend to avoid being called so again.

You develop an anti-social introverted personality to avoid people and issues. You get harrassed by boys at school for not being interested. You get your first full pelvic exam at the gynecologist before you even get your period because your parents think you were rape. Your seventeen year old boyfriend shames you for doing anal on your period because cool girls do anal? I'm as sex positive as it gets, but remembering those moments always makes me feel small and used.

Fuck all y'all. I don't care if I'm attractive and we have mutual interests. Leave me alone, I make my own money. There is so much more to life than copulation or the simulation of it.

Hope you can sue them into oblivion. And I hope you can find your interests and joys in life again. Vindication for these sorts of things is highly underrated.

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