Sex. I'm not surprised this concept has slipped passed the minds of the ever judgemental reddit hivemind, but non-consensual sex doesn't look like a fucking fight. It looks like normal sex. Why? Because most victims of rape are either too scared to do anything or are not in the mental state of mind to fight back. Generally they say no, are ignored and penetrated, and at that point as a woman you are being held down and fucked, and you don't want to be, but you don't want to fight either because if he can do this to you when he's in a "good" mood, what could he do if you piss him off?

The hive mind is apparently too stupid to fathom the simple fact that rape is, physically, just sex, and will look like just sex to an outsider. The vast majority of it is psychological. Having your body manipulated against you. Having your sense of security destroyed.

Many victims of rape cum, did you know that? In fact, there used to be a common belief that if you came it wasn't really rape.

In the majority of rape cases, there is zero long term damage to the body. All of the damage done by rape? It's all straight to the mind. If rape was violent, most victims would have at least some damage down there physically.

Rape is scary because it's not violent. Again, reddit can't seem to comprehend this, but rape is scary because it's rooted in moral grey areas. You were so drunk that you didn't know where you were. Your body enjoyed itself and you might have even seemed into it when you were delirious but you wake up the next morning mentally crippled.

He was bigger than you, and you were alone in his house at night, and he didn't seem to be taking no for an answer, so you gave up because you were starting to get the impression that he'd cave your skull in otherwise.

If you walked in on someone getting raped, you wouldn't realize it. Ever. That's reality.

Violent back alley rapes are a small fraction of rape.