Idk what to title this but I feel for my friend :(

No no no, mamas boy isnt the way to go, that is only a slight taste of her future marriage with him. Its as if she married him and his mum.

Help her out if this situation, or some how get it sorted out on some agreement between the two before this marriage goes ahead, dont be stuck on this “we’ve been together for 3 years”. Maybe you needed to be with him for 3 years so you could grow and become ready for the man you’re truly meant for, or maybe its time for your fiancé to learn a lesson and you guys can move past this, itll take alot of time and effort, he would have to be worth it and have something that not many other men have.

Nothing will change unless he wants to change, you can never ever change a man.

If you’re comfortable and happy with the way he handles your marriage with his mum placing her 2c then go ahead, inshaAllah a long lasting marriage.

3 years isn’t that long compared to a life time with this disrespectful behavior from him. He needs to priorities your wants. This doesn’t mean he needs to disrespect his mother in any way.

/r/MuslimMarriage Thread