Idk where any of these things go and I'm too afraid too ask

I was legit terrified to at home. The behavioral kernel has rooted in me as well: I am insanely possessive of my things (as drawn out by colleagues who truly don't respect private property, the only bit of that I'll be buying back). But what got me was how completely unaware my mom seems of her possessiveness and control over the house. Every single room and space, every process had to have her stamp on it, I couldn't even appeal to her to save her own time on the questionable efficacy of smashing the cans or of spending time emptying them, it was a ritual which must be completed in whole in the designated area. ...It makes me feel so damned tired.

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