If we are not able to tell what gender you are, you have zero reason to bitch about it.

Nope. Absolutely not. You chose to say sir or mam. that’s your fault. You don’t get to blame someone for being offended by YOUR choices, your words. You chose to say the wrong pronoun, whether you knew it or not, doesn’t matter. You chose to say sir or mam when could have just completely avoided that, therefore completely avoiding any potential conflict. This is 100% your fault. You cannot blame someone else for your choices. If you can’t tell if someone is a male or female, why the fuck would you even bother choosing????????? That’s literally asking for trouble. If you don’t want people to get offended, DONT SAY SOMETHING OFFENSIVE! why is this so hard for people to comprehend? You don’t get to blame other people when you do something offensive. Cause & effect. If you don’t like the effect (someone being offended), don’t be the cause!!!! It’s really not hard. Just don’t say any pronoun if you can’t tell.

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