My ex wife had an affair for months and I wanted to be mad at him. I also wanted to be mad at at her. I was furious first but it didn’t last. Cheating is is just a product of a failing relationship. It was a one sided major offense, sure, but it was ultimately an end result to an overall awful relationship. It was going to end and this was just one of the possible results. I don’t blame either of them for ending my marriage, it was gone already.

I’ve found someone else that I truly love and they love me back far more than I can imagine. Time heals all wounds. Learn to forgive yourself and others... But don’t forget. Don’t be fooled again. Try to forgive and move on. You’ll be happier than you could’ve imagined during those difficult times.