If you could make everyone in the world believe one thing, what would you choose?

One person specifically.

That she can trust me enough to let herself love me. We had an argument recently, it was more of a misunderstanding. I sent her a snap meant for another woman, a coworker of whom there is barely a friendship with let alone anything romantic. I was consoling this other woman, I said something like "you'll be right big girl", after she told me her contract through work wasn't being renewed and she had no job opportunities lined up. I accidentally sent it to my partner at the time. Then I texted her saying it was for this other woman and apologised, thinking nothing of it. Well it became huge, she made a comment about not sending her other women's snaps, I explained it was innocent and regrettably called her paranoid and said she had trust issues. The whole thing became bigger than Ben Hur. She felt that because I felt the need to explain my misplaced text, that I must be covering up for something. When really, I explained because I didn't want her thinking anything was going on. I thought I was doing the right thing. She called things off, saying she can't trust me. I've spent weeks and a dozen different ways explaining that it was just a big miscommunication. Harmless. A slip of the thumb. She's not hearing it.

Discovered today she's blocked me on social media, despite me saying I'm going to drop it and not discuss her and i as a thing. I understand where she's coming from, she's worried I'll drunk text or dial her I guess.

I sincerely tried really hard with her, I spent my 20s avoiding relationships or getting close to ppl. All to have this happen. I love her, honestly love her because I felt she and I just connected.

Fuck Snapchat.

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