If You Don't Know Your Partner's Passwords, You're The Idiot

No I'm saying crazy people can only find love with other crazy people. Then they have crazy kids and the cycle continues.

So today, cell phones are like letters 50+ years ago. Back then, no one would think its rational behavior to force someone to let you or want to let someone read your mail. So with that in mind, it isnt a rational behavior to force your way into someones phone or expect someone to think it's okay you want to read their phone.

A trustworthy relationship would be your significant other is okay with opening their phone when you're next to them without trying to hide it or be sneaky about using it. Not completely handing it over so you can do whatever you want and look through whatever you want.

I trust my girlfriend to use my phone, play music, take pictures, etc. Just like she trusts me doing the same. Shes never asked to go through my shit and I'm confident that she hasn't, shes got no reason to want to because I'm not a cheating sack or shit.

Asking or expecting your significant other to relinquish all of their private passwords and codes to you to use as you wish is fucking nuts. Married couples may share a lot of passwords/codes but I highly doubt they open up all of their world to eachother. People by default like some privacy. Hence why things like mancaves exist or why every parent has a room in the house that everyone knows they go to when they're just tryna chill out and be alone for an hour or so.

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