you randomly attacked a person and called them a name for no reason, and you're struggling to understand why this person got upset?

do you have any idea how to be a normal person and live in society?

how the fuck would i know this sub gets "brigaded by incels" i never posted here before lol. so ok, i'll help you out and give you some advice, the next time someone is talking to you in innocent conversation, and your brain randomly says "oh this person is a secret incel", take 10 seconds, click on their history.

if they post alot in subs like MGTOW or incel subs, then they probably hate women. if none of their posts are shitting on women, and they don't post in women hating subs, it's just a regular person saying a completely innocent thing with no intentions.

what you shouldn't do, is just randomly accuse me of things for no reason, because it makes you look insane, and yes, it upsets people.

let me lay out a scenario for you, you're talking to someone and they suddenly call you a nazi. you explain how you aren't and never have been, and are confused. this person then just repeatedly says over and over "well you seemed like a nazi", even though you never said anything that has anything to do with nazi.

this is what you did to me, you randomly called me incel, i got upset, and instead of apologizing you just keep repeating "well you seemed like one", so it's my fault you attacked me.

like holy shit, if you simply said "sorry about that" and that's it, i wouldn't have a problem, but you're so fucking weird, you know you attacked me for no reason and you won't admit it.

and now you're giving me this ultimatum that i have to admin that i acted like an incel? this is the most gaslighting weird and abusive manipulative interaction i've had, do you have borderline personality discord? you insulted me when i did nothing at all to you and now you're trying to get me to state i fucking deserved it.

you are 100% someone who abuses every partner they date emotionally, like holy shit, this is wild.