Uh……no. I have four kids by two different men who just so happened to both be abusive. I have no family support, never did. My family support went as far as “you’re a stay at home mom…you need to let him treat you however because if you don’t you will be homeless”. My son has severe behavioral issues. His father denies that they’re real and thinks I’m just a bad mom. My other ex also thinks I’m a bad mom. I do my best every day to take care of four little ones all on my own with zero support & not even zero support, the added in of two coparenting relationships where I am treated like crap most of the time.

I don’t say this for sympathy, I deal with the life I was dealt and am thankful for my children and their health as well as my own……….but my point, I have never ever touched drugs. I don’t smoke even cigarettes, weed, nor do I drink alcohol. I would absolutely never in a million years do that to my children let alone myself.