Asian bro here. By your list, I am only one of those things on your list, I have a good job and am financially well off. It absolutely sucks being an Asian guy some days. However, it sucks to be a Patriots fan on some days. It sucks being Black on some days. Does it suck on more days being Asian than white? Probably, but it is also likely that someone has it harder. I mean, Al-Baghdadi probably has more hard days.
I am not here to convince anyone of anything but my story is simple. I am pretty short and probably average in terms of attractiveness. I lift, but I do not have a great body. I haven't ever been truly rejected by my race, but the closest instance was when an Asian girl thought I was hitting on her and accused me of being Japanese (I can explain this further, but it would take too long here). I have never had problems with white or Asian girls. However, there is a big difference between a LTR and just a hook-up.
There are definite negative stereotypes of Asians, but who doesn't have a negative stereotype or two. People need to realize that you probably shouldn't waste your time on someone who believes in that crap. Trust me, it is not worth the herpes.
Just speaking from my own experience, most girls didn't even bring up the idea of my ethnicity as a reason why they humped me. In real life, this is such a fucking strange thing to say. A few of the girls have said they either really like Asian culture, or they like our hair (yeah I know it is weird, no idea if she was joking). One girl legitimately said that she had a fetish for Asian guys.
The story gets stranger. I dated a white girl who loathed black guys and hated Jews, yet had no problems with me and even saw Asians as allies to whites. Spare me the lecture, but as a young buck, I was willing to look past it because she was actually an otherwise great girl and would never act on those thoughts.
The point of that crude story is that who cares what the fuck most girls think. You only can fuck one of them, maybe two at a time. A typical girl that you meet will not know what the hell SMV is and all this Red Pill crap. We see statistics about how Asian guys are the least desired in the US, and it is probably true. But so what? Stop wasting time with those that think poorly of you and go find someone better. What are white or other Asian guys supposed to do for you, force all girls to like Asian guys? We can't change the way a girl thinks, but we can change the girl.
If you made it this far, you deserve a special treat. I have a small penis. It is a simple fact, so there is nothing really to fret over (yes I know, fret over my small penis good joke). I was hanging out with some of my female co-workers at a bar and one of them started talking about her ex-bf was. She picked up a fork and traced the line of the handle and said to another girl this was how small it was. She then instantly looked at me and said "Oh, sorry! I didn't mean that." The other girl probably thought she said sorry because they saw an Asian guy in the midst of their small penis conversation. In reality, she was saying sorry because she was so drunk and didn't see me and was actually talking about me incognito to the other girl.
TL;DR: Your results may vary as an Asian guy, but regardless, you are responsible for your results anyway.