The options women have is often an illusion, read on: This narrative uses the 1-10 scale to rate an individual’s “hotness” accurate or not. So the subject woman is a solid 6, maybe 7 on the scale. She’s young loves to hit clubs and concerts anything thats fun. At each of these events she can easily hook up with some like minded guy that is an 8 maybe a 9 here and there, because a hit it and quit it 7 is no drama. Several years ho by and Miss 6 maybe 7 is now a 6 when she puts enough effort into it. She’s not as into the club scene and is thinking more about leaving the party life behind. She gets plenty of attention from decent prospects, well employed stable men that like her are solid 6s. But she turns her nose up at these men, because she knows shes pulled 8s regularly out if clubs. She knows she deserves nothing less, she ends up with an un or underemployed 8 man-boy just waiting for his band to hit it big.