So the person went for it and you liked i but they should have asked first (before the kiss) is what you're saying? That's totally fine I'm just trying to understand what you're saying.

I'm trying to understand that this is a personal antidote or not..

Besides that. If someone tried to kiss you, and you didn't like it. You should Express that directly in the moment. Worse implies rape? That's really all I can ascertain from the use of the word worse.

In the end, It's not your responsibility to punish other people. It's your responsibility to look out for yourself.

We have a prison system to punish (or rehabilitate depending on your politics) people who do "worse".

But don't worry about revenge. Always work on you. That's the most important person in your world.