Ex wife. It actually makes a lot of sense thinking about it. Before we split, she got to be a huge fan of those true crime shows that go through how people were murdered and how their killer was caught. She was emotionally abusive and attempts at this continued after we were split. She showed up at my house a couple times unannounced saying she needed to get some things she left behind but seemed more content at antagonizing me further. Suddenly, a couple months ago(divorce is still dragging), she switched from that antagonistic/emotionally abusive style to victim telling the court and anyone who will listen just how scared of me she is which is complete bs. She's setting up for it to be 'self defense'.