If a woman ignores you over text, do you just ignore her in person?

Honestly the best option is also the one that is generally the most difficult. It's to realize that if she's ignoring or doing anything like that, to move on and spend your time and energy elsewhere.

A guy who puts up with that, or is even remotely concerned with it, is a guy that doesn't have other options to go to.

It's sad but in my personal experience women are extremely shallow and don't have that concept of love, or whatever, in that they generally won't find a male attractive who seems overly invested in them. They prefer the guy to have other options. It's how the game is played. Sadly it would seem that human women and ape/lion/elephant women are probably all about the same when it comes to mating. Higher concepts, as far as I can tell, of romantic chance-taking are not really going to be found.

Sorry but this is my experience.

That said,being over-invested in a girl early on is a sign of some kind of issue. One should probably not feel romantic with a woman he hasn't touched.

Actually, that's total bullshit. But that's what we have to do today with these women, and really it is how things have always been: eat shit.

So just eat it, and forget about it ever being different. Kill your delusions.

If you can follow this then you will get the best case scenario, which is that maybe she eventually texts you and you can be a real man and adult and simply tell her the real truth, which is that she didn't respond so you moved on and found someone else to spend your energy on. And at this point she will find you more attractive and it's a win win.

I can dish this advice out because I suppose I believe it to be true intellectually, but in practice I find it quite difficult to follow. For one, I don't really have time to fuck about meeting tons of women. If I meet one I like, I know that that's the one I want.

This leads to utter devastation and disaster every time. Total disaster. Sometimes I think women are truly not even human.

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