Nope, never again will I allow him to have any power to hurt me. 8 long years of me putting him first before my own family only to find out he was having some kind of relationship with another girl. His sister let it slip when I was on the phone with him. He lied to me and said they had only texted for a week or so. He also told me that she was stalking him and basically told me she was crazy. He told me that he would stop talking to her if I wanted him too. Are you fucking kidding me, what a fool I was. Why should I have to ask the man who supposedly loves me to stop having a relationship with some girl...He is not a nice guy and I truly feel for anyone that gets tangled up in his life. He used me for an emotional punching bag. I was his support all throughout his family drama, when he found out he had very serious life threatening disorder, when he lost a close family member, I literally made myself available too him 24/7. Never again!!! I need a man who doesn't need me to be his mother or his nurse.