I feel the same way. Neither me or my bf (soon fiance, we have seriously discussed marriage) want children and during our discussions about my difficulties with birth control and wanting to get a tubal ligation, he has off-handedly suggested the snip for him but I told him not to worry about feeling pressured into doing that just because every method of birth control I have tried has ruined my quality of life. I'm ready for a fight to get it for myself, but deep down I feel it would be easier for him to obtain and it's slightly unfair if neither of us want kids. But it's his body, not mine. I'm not going to let him go into a medical procedure he doesn't necessarily feel comfortable with just because of my already growing exhaustion with the whole pregnancy prevention problem.