I'll never find love

Two words: True Confidence.

They’re attracted to confidence and success together. They’re attracted to aspiring people who have dreams and are brave enough to follow them. Not blindly out of stupidity but by having a plan. And if they think you are also somewhat in a similar league as them physically, they’ll want you. If you’re just physically attractive they will fuck you but they wont ever love you. Not after high school anyway. I dont know how old you are but the good quality girls start getting attracted to smart, ambitious and rich guys after about 25. In big modern cities that might stretch to 30 but it still holds true. It’s biology. They can’t help it. The hormone pumped girl fresh out of puberty looks for a healthy looking (attractive) mate. Later the female looks for a that provides security. A mate that can take care of her and the offspring. Of course real life is more complex and there are too many variables we aren’t aware of or can’t control. I know. And you probably knew all of this but it’s a good reminder. Also, no matter how rich, successful or perfect in every way you are, the vibes you give off are key. We are social creatures and we become attracted to vibes, not to hard facts. That’s why bad boys who are poor and unemployed still get lots of pussy even if it’s always short lived. Practice flirting until you get to a point where you can flirt without having to act, where you are comfortable with it. There are short and average looking dudes married to angels and goddesses all over the world. How does it happen: True confidence. I managed to hook up with girls way above my league during times when I felt truly confident. Of course I didn’t think of them as being out of my league at the time. If I did, I wouldn have been able to attract them. As soon as I thought of them as being above me, i have off that insecure stank and it went to shit. This has been way too long, but I hope someone gets something out of it.

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