Because sex is such a nuanced thing. I do believe in innocence, ignorance, and obliviousness. I've had unwanted sexual advances before and and there when it was unwelcome. I once had a crazy girlfriend proceed to grope me for sex, say no, then pull me into her and complain why did I stop when she was saying no. I ended up stopping altogether because it was too creepy for my liking.

Sex and sexual behavior is sometimes not so clear. Sometimes it's just sad and pathetic like in CK's case. You also have to think of the situations these women were in. Often willingly secluded from other people, person in power involved, almost always the opposite sex (or sexual preference), many are entertainers or in the same business themselves. Think. Just think. People aren't usually dumb in these instances. Many just feel bad for going along with it after the fact. People also don't like to admit that they make mistakes.

You can't go around making accusations when in some way you were complicit. Rape is wrong, but most of these cases weren't raped or even sexual assault. Even the two women who watched CK jerk it gave him a thumbs up to proceed at a very odd request. Comedian or not, it was such a dry request they had to have known it was 50/50 he'd really do it.

What I find more worrisome is the blowback from hard stances like the media tries to instigate. It's the same behavior that I knew what resulted in white America electing Trump. I called it years before he was elected that a hard conservative push was about to happen. All I ask is to look at both sides. Most if these cases were not even sexual assault and the intention was not meant to harm.