This illogical bullshit, help me understand: My ex thinks I should be greateful that she isn't charging me to raise our daughter, yet she won't share custody.

lack a parental vocabulary.

lack of a parental vocabulary, sorry I missed a short word. I'm sorry, and I didn't mean to offend you. I was one of the previous responders to your first post. Just slow down a bit - you said so yourelf:

I will explain more if you ask.

I don't think I should be paying anyone except the people who provide those items.

I don't think saying "you should be paying" support, is trying to help. its just someone else who is used to being happy with the system the way it is.

"dude.seriously?" well you can act all high and mighty all you want, but you are not in my situation and you are simply going to judge my situation from your high perch all dam day.

I was not asking for bonus points, and this isn't a fucking point system. Its my god damn childs life. You are going to sit there and tell me that I am asking for a pat on the back or some fucking points because I want to get credit where credit is due, WHEN I STRUGGLE TO PAY MY GOD DAMN RENT. Well, excuse me for expecting a little respect for seeing the emotional and physical pain that is being caused in my daughter because people like you feel that one parent has to pay the other because I see the problem and point it out. You just see some whiney deadbeat who knows that he is just labeled a deadbeat because the system doesn't want to change because it already profits those who have profit. ah fuck. I got all side tracked.

well thats part of the problem, how do I sum up the last decade of my life??

And, yet, oddly enough you point out one syntax error in an effort to discredit me when all I tell you is to get a grip and listen up:

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