I'm (20F) not sure how can I fix my relationship with my boyfriend (23M) of almost 5 years

I just don't know what to say or do to not make her feel so alone. I am actually starting therapy in two weeks.

Then also ask your therapist about it! Another option is to contact support groups, the national suicide hotline and the like and ask for advice.

Education in my country is free, but I still need the money for food, rent etc.

Many banks/schools offer interest free loans for students. There's also the option of you working as an aupair or with an older person and "work" for your rent/food.

he flat's contract is also under my name, he should move out, but he doesn't really have a place to go.

Then give him 30 days to find something else (in written form). You're not responsible for him. If you continue enabling him, it'll just get worse.

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