I'm [23/f] usually a monogamous person; he [27/m] is not, but he still gets jealous.

I'd say that posting what you were doing was probably an attempt to test this situation. Valid, if incendiary.

No, he doesn't get to say he doesn't want anything but a casual relationship and expect you to do differently, but... how would you feel if he threw it in your face?

In my experience, there is rarely a jealousy-free polygamous relationship. The question is more about how you deal with (or agree not to deal with) the reality of it all.

You say you want monogamy and the closeness and trust that comes with that. You do something likely to test his resolve - and it does.

You deserve a relationship that suits you. If this gets him to reconsider his feelings and commit, fine. If not, either you seek love elsewhere or just don't throw it in his face. Dating multiple people shouldn't be a battle waged on social media. But maybe finding out if it could be otherwise is worth a single shot across the bow.

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