I'm (30M) feeling lonely while engaged to my fiance (22F)

Similar situation... been married a few years, i (32F) want sex/intimacy all the time but husband (31m) doesn’t. He doesn’t touch me or hug or kiss me or say romantic things...I feel like his friend most of the time. If he gives me a compliment it’s like “you like nice” but never has any urges to be passionate and it really sucks. I tried initiating loads and he’s knocked me back so much I’m honestly embarrassed to keep trying... I also have gone off the pill (I’ve been on it too long and fed up with hormones making me feel like crap) and don’t want kids. Im worries about getting pregnant but happy to use condoms, he could use them but he just says they’re no good and that’s it! Hasn’t tried again since. He never wants to talk about it either &is out all the time working. Definitely makes me question the whole thing & doesn’t make me feel great about myself either, as much as I try not to let it bother me

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