I'm an ""incel"" who'd never hurt women but do have violent urges against men who i see as "extra-ordinarily" successful with women

I can understand that physical attraction is important in a relationship but having a trophy girlfriend is just to boost the ego. Someone to show off to other guys in an attempt to make them envious. I don't think the OP could handle the attention she would get even if it's unwanted by her. She may be drop dead gorgeous when all dolled up but take away the make up, the hair extensions and he may just be in for a very big let down.

People like the OP sadly do indeed exist. He thinks about crushing a guy's skull in but has not acted upon it, according to the information that he provided. I believe that the probably is pretty low that your fiancé will be viscously assaulted by a jealous guy. Granted, the possibility does exist but there are many other heinous activities that exist as well but have a low probability of occuring. I'm very sorry to say but I believe that your fiance has a better chance of being attacked by a mass murderer than by a brick hurling incel. I'm just trying to be as objective as I can. If by chance it should happen, I'm certain that you'd have no problem getting a CCW permit for your safety, if you don't already have one.

It seems that the OP should just let go of this idea about girls that are already spoken for. If she mentions that she has a boyfriend, he could just leave it as small talk and not pursue her in any way. It's not rocket science. I hate when simple things needlessly become complex. If she's taken, move on. Simple as that. She'll have more respect for him. Bashing in her boyfriend's head will certainly seal the deal, just as you said. I really can't imagine any girl being attracted to the guy who crushed her BFs head afterwards. That's beyond insane!

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