I'd be curious to know how old you are and how long you have felt this way? Back when I was young and cringey I used to think of myself as a "forever aloner" and I used to be pretty preoccupied with it. Had a best friend I was secretly in love with (only came to find out when it was far too late that it was mutual). You know, the whole works. Looking back, it's all really laughable. My big concern with incel culture is that it seems to be treating a really normal phase a lot of people go through as an incurable state of being. Do you ever worry that classifying yourself as an incel and having a mindset like that could be indirectly contributing to your problems making romantic connections?