I'm becoming very aware of how judgy I am...

I do this! Haha I tend to get anxious and nervous about things because I assume people are thinking the same way I think about them and that’s not accurate at all. I tend to over analyze and judge and make ridiculous assumptions about complete strangers and I’m trying to stop. Recognizing it is a big step! For me it’s catching myself when I have those thoughts and correcting them, reminding myself that’s not okay, I don’t know a lot of these people, and I would feel like shit if I knew someone was thinking that kind of thing about me. It’s definitely something that takes time, reworking that bad habit and promoting more positive thinking about others and myself.

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