You don't have to figure out what you are. You're a fucking human being. This obsession our society has with other peoples gender and sexuality is a very recent societol construct. It's a desease and I hope as people progress we can go back to our roots of just being humans. Whatever that means.

I was extremely shy in high school and was a virgin into my 20's. All my friends made me feel like I wasn't a real person unless I had sex. This put so much pressure on me and made it impossible for me to have confidence. What I realized years later is that I literally don't talk to any of them anymore. Most of them are stuck in the same town working a horrible job, having kids that will do the exact same thing. I realize it is hard to grasp at this moment, and I know how traumatizing the high school experience was for me. But just try and keep in mind in a few years you probably won't know or care about any of the people who judge you. As far as your parents and anyone who is worth keeping in your life they will accept you as you are