I'm [F/21] have serious feelings for my married roommate [M/26]. To complicate things, his wife is cheating on him. HELP.

Is there a reference with my username I don't know? It's been mentioned before but I was just trying to come up with a name completely unassociated with my in real life, so I used the "sounds of nothingness" or conversely the thing a little girl says as she skips through a field.

And yea I should probably stop responding to this thread but op is ticking me off. And every time someone replies I et more riled up. I just can't imagine having this happen in my own marriage. I want to slap her and be like you are ruining their marriage. You think it's the wife but it's you. You caused this.

I would have packed her crap and put her on the street. Actually I would have called her parents and given them her crap and made them take her away. But she wouldn't be staying with me.

I just can't help but wonder/think the wife is like my sister. She is so so sweet and has a hard time telling anyone no and is always willing to help a friend. She gets taken advantage of a lot. Her in laws actually lived in the house she just bought for 8! Months while she had to keep paying for an apartment because they kept "getting unlucky in their home search."

Point being just because someone tells you to your face you aren't a nuisance doesn't mean you aren't one. And maybe op should actually reflect if the best think for this marriage is 1) a random friend living with them 2) a newborn with no father living with them 3) a friend trying to get with the husband living with them.... It's like I know you can't actually be this stupid so you are just choosing to go full ostrich and pretend to be this stupid.

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