Im going on a trip to see my best friend of 8 years for 2 days without my boyfriend…Am I the asshole?

IT’S THE MANIPULATION FOR ME !! As I’m reading all these comments I never really realized what he’s doing is manipulative and toxic behavior. Me and him do communicate a lott but this is something I’ve always tried to look past… I always feel like I’m the one being a bad girlfriend because he constantly brings that incident up… I’m just confused because I literally have done nothing wrong. I don’t even do anything but work. We had a conversation last night and he was like “ I wish it didn’t have to be this “ “ I was planning on marrying you but you always ruin my plans” “ I’ll always love you but I’m not sure if I could get passed it“… I’m going on the trip. I’ve made up my mind and I’m doing it for me. He probably won’t break up with me but how should I handle it moving forward knowing that he is manipulative? I really do love him…

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