Age 16, you're still forced to do things you don't want to. After 18 and you leave home, live on your own. If you don't feel like hanging out with people, you don't have to. You can also have it so there's no opinions from others, any more, where you'll feel like a loser by doing things you don't want to. Then ya just gotta deal with going to work. Don't have to be "friends" with everybody there. A lot less bullshit.

Then ya go.. ok during my spare time, what do I wanna do. Maybe you can do something during that time so you can eventually get out of having to hang out with those losers at work. Plus getting up when you don't feel like it. Maybe you can fix that during your spare time instead of watching TV or whatever else you'd do which wouldn't get you out of the hole.

Your problem all has to do with money. If you had some, then you wouldn't mind doing things. People would hang to hang out with you. Women would want to use you. So if you can figure out how to get that money in your spare time, that'll fix most of the problems.