OK.

First of all, I'm an old guy, so take that into account. :)

Secondly, seriously.....any man that claims to be a "feminist" in this day of third wave feminism either has an agenda, is crazy, is stupid, or some combination of the above. I suspect that is why your "friends" hate strippers, promiscuous omen, etc. They fall into that category. They simply don't believe, but pretend. I like strippers and earthy women, and strong smart women and I mean that without any secondary meaning......and I would boil in oil before I called myself feminist.

Thirdly, I'm going to pass on the subject of TG and BLM, because you really wouldn't like my views on those subjects, so I will spare you.

Seriously though, accept men as men. I am sorry they have become so whipped that some have to pretend to be something they are not to maintain their social position.