Im a Model who Pretended to be an Incel

I’m actually from a “micro-generation” called Xennial. It’s described as an analog childhood but a digital adulthood. We grew up along side technology. I didn’t have my first cell phone until college, but now I don’t know how to adult without the internet. It’s an odd combination.

Anyway, I think (hope) a lot of my respect just comes from maturity, and that these girls will grow into it too. Everyone hates on millennials, but every generation thinks that the one that follows them is going to be the downfall of society. I hope that’s not true. Maybe millennials just need to mature a bit...like the rest of us did.

Plus, I’m just genuinely curious about how you came to develop these opinions about women. Slinging insults is not only completely pointless, it wouldn’t get me real answers. Plus, even if I disagree with you, I assume you came to these conclusions from life experiences and I’m legitimately sad for you. I’m sad for anyone that has such a depressing outlook on life. I want everyone (ok, except my ex) to find happiness. Spewing hatefulness won’t help you feel better...so I don’t. You know?

As for the women you loathe, from my personal experience, misguided as their attempts may be (holy hell, you would not believe my younger sister), most women are are just looking for someone to love them and care for them. A shit ton of girls and women still think they “need” a man to get by in life. They are just looking for someone to fill the job they think they need filled. This weekend, my own mother shocked me by saying “see! We don’t need a man to help us!” She was legit excited that we were able to change the battery in my son’s RC car by ourselves. I said out loud “of course we don’t.” (How did I come from her?)

I guess I’m just trying to say that while there are evil women out there, most of us are just trying to figure life out. People fuck up, lord knows I have, but it doesn’t mean they’re evil. They’re just confused, misguided, or misinformed, and maybe they’ll do better next time.

Thanks for talking with me though. Very informative. :) I sincerely hope you find happiness and can let go of some of this bitterness you have about your past. Life is good. Enjoy it while you have it! :)

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