I’ve not had unprotected sex with another man since the beginning of being with my husband. I would feel awful bringing something home to him, let alone exposing myself. My husband hasn’t been with anyone else, since I’m with him almost 24/goddamn 7 for years now, it’s something I know so I don’t worry about anything.

However, I’m going to be blunt here, no one really cares about your opinion or judgement of them. I don’t believe you when you say you feel the same about men who do that because of your tone in the original post directed at and about women solely; it comes through clearly. This is toxic, agree with the other commenter on that, but if people aren’t sleeping with you it’s highly unlikely they care about your opinion on what they do or don’t do in their private life is. You do you.