I'm new to ENM, and not sure what to expect/how to feel about things? (Long Post)

Thanks for the reply again :D

That's how I feel as well, but she's told me about 20 times now she loves me, and I don't need to worry about things, it's all in my head. I was hoping she would've said something like "I can see you're hurting, so I won't go out with her this weekend and we can sort it out one way or the other throughout the week", but nope that's not the case, still going out. And one hand I can see why.

I don't think she will "Trick" her into bed, they are yet to meet up when it's just them two together anyway lol. Plus my GF doesn't drink, so none of the "I got so drunk I can't believe we did that" .

We tried to chat earlier, but was essentially me saying I don't want her to go, and her saying it's fine nothing to worry about. Lol

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