Your dad is not an idiot. ;)
We also don't take our baby to places where he will annoy people if he cries, and if we do go somewhere, like a restaurant or church, and he gets upset, we step outside with him until he is done crying.
Thank you, from everyone. :)
I'm not unhappy at all, and I believe one of the keys to that is by retaining my sense of self.
Win.
Also, my son doesn't have a ridiculous name.
Thank you, from all his future teachers, employers and the world in general.
Anyway, yeah, you need to identify and hang with person-parents like yourself. Get rid of the mombies. They're beyond worthless. ;)
Here's a list of "how to make adult friends" -- the original one was for CF people but have pulled out a few that could be tweaked for you.