I've spoken to her many many times. On all the topics I mentioned in the post.. It's always met with harsh attitude she starts yelling and we get no where. Alot of the times I approach it calmly. Not saying that I haven't before, and I know that's the wrong way to go about talking to your significant other. But it doesn't matter which way I put it it always met with the same reaction. She deflects, yells, and shuts down and communication ends... I must say tho she was high receptive to me telling her I need more affection, which she's done in the past before but nothing changes its like she's just telling me what I want to hear to get me to shut up.. Which is how she responded before when it came to things pertaining to do with our daughter but still here we are a year later and my daughter still hasn't been to the doctor..

The last time we had a major "talk" about the dentist which I brought up in the post. In tears I basically told her she could fuck other men I don't care I just want her to take our daughter to the dentist. Which I obviously didn't mean but that's how desperate I am after talking with her and talking with her and her making promises she never keeps or makes excuses. With that situation she actually for the first time admitted she fucked up and the condition of our daughters teeth is on her. Which I was glad to hear she took responsibility for this but still she has done nothing we spoke about and that was weeks ago. I mean given the Coronavirus and everything, we live in a hotspot but still she could still be making calls doing stuff being proactive which she hasn't done.