"I'm pregnant and have a kid, let me cut in front of you!" I'm also pregnant lady

This line should only be spoken to entitled people.

I dont know how hard pregnancy is (since i am a male), but what i do know is, that if you can not present yourself in your hardest of times, how will you present yourself in the best of times?

Some people dont realize this, but they unconsciously judge married women based on how they behave when pregnant.

If a pregnant woman is all 'i am pregnant and i should be treated better because of it', then you will bet that no one would be willing to help her as much as you would expect people to help her if she had said 'can you please help me?'.

If a person uses their pregnancy as a free pass to everything, soon enough, most companies would make policies against such people because of all the uncomfort they cause to any other pregnant woman possibly waiting in line.

If have a surgery or something that makes me unable to do certain tasks, i would normally ask for help (if needed) and not specify the injury/surgery that makes the task difficult. If people ask me why would they do something for me, then i would explain the injury part. But often times, i wont have to since i had asked them politely if they would help me, and if they wont, i wont act entitled. And in most cases, if they ask about why should they help me, i would just do the task myself rather then telling them about said injury or surgery.

I get that women have it hard. But if they can not control themselves, then they should not do it. Same goes for men. If they can not control their pedophilia or sexual desires, then they should go to psychiatrist for some help rather than put innocent women through trauma that would haunt them for possibly the entirety of their life.

But, first world countries have it easier because they have a judiciary system where the rapist gets punished.

In my country (3rd world), most rapists go unpunished. The other men of society have to step up to go against the rapist because the law is shit.

In most cases, the rapist is beaten to death and no man would be willing to marry the girl because she is no longer a virgin (Islamic country. Adultery is taken very seriously).

But still, i would prefer if people go out of their way, to help or console people in pain, or pregnancy, because of all the hormones flowing through them.

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