I’m sure he knows that. Don’t me wrong we’re not living lavish by any means. We were a 1 car family until April of this year. I make a extremely mediocre salary and also have a summer and winter shut down. I work manual labor (automotive industry) so I get it. I just wanted you to let you know another husbands perspective. We take more pride in providing for our families than you may think/know, but I definitely get your side to as my wife and I have had this convo many of times.
Ultimately, you get to make the best decision for your family. If you decide to go back to work and it’s just not working out staying at home would always be a option you could go back to.