Im scared to give up everything to move to the same country as my SO

At first he was going to come here. He was going to come for a visit and he was okay with moving here but then they didn't let him in the country. They told him he didn't have enough luggage and sent him back home. Then his mind changed he hated Canada and never wanted to come back. And then it was about me going there. And sometimes I get wrapped up in the moment and will do anything for "love" I guess. And I said well I guess I'll have to move there. And then now it's been about me moving there. First he said I should move there by the end of the year but that's not financially possible to do. It's going to cost me a lot of money to fix up my house and sell it and then to get the visa and nursing college licence and get my dogs there then find a place to rent And I hate to say it but he was saying not to worry about any of it because we would be broke but together. I don't want to be broke I don't want to have nothing. But then on the flip side I don't want anyone else but him

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