I use to think exactly like you. That it was impossible for a overweight chick to be with somebody that was extremely attractive. Until I met one of my best friends. Who is like the girl you described really pretty and overweight (about 300+ pounds) but all of the guys she dated were desirable and attractive men starters on my colleges football team, known guys around campus, even dated a local celebrity. And most of them weren’t short and average. Maybe it was her confidence (because she’s hella confidant) but her being a big girl apparently didn’t make a difference. Again.. everything is ultimately about preference. Why can’t a 300 pound girl have a preference but a 120 pound girl can? You’re an idealist if you think the world is black and white. And that it’s impossible for a bigger girl to snag a “desirable man”.