I'm tired of being the quiet person that seems to have no personality.

Sometimes being the ‘quiet one’ is just in a person’s nature.

Harness it, by being the ultra-observant, [legally] stealthy, quick-witted surprise to anyone why tries to imply that there is something wrong with being a little bit more on the calm end of the spectrum.

You shouldn’t have to force yourself to be something you’re not, since there is truly nothing wrong with being the quiet one.

I hated it too, now it scares people when I need to get serious if it’s brought up as a negative or assumed to be a pushover.

One conversation with an unpleasant coworker, for example, and that will be the only conversation. It’ll end quickly too. Without need for combativeness.

Use it. It’s a gift.

/r/socialskills Thread